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“Beginning the Year with God: God’s Nearness or Resignation?”

The YouVersion app on my phone has the verse of the day as Proverbs 16:9: “The heart of a man considers (or ponders or plans?) his way, and (or but?) the LORD determines his steps.” (My translation.)

I had a look at one of my favorite commentators on the book of Proverbs, Christine Roy Yoder, who wrote the following helpful comments:

Whereas mortals have the capacity and responsibility to plan their “way” . . . , God is proximate—God approves or redirects each step (the conjunction may be translated as “and” or “but).  The proverb may be interpreted as a comforting reminder of God’s nearness and sovereignty, a matter-of-fact acknowledgement of human limitations, or, more cynically, as a sigh of resignation (cf. 20:24; Jer 10:23).[1]

So, how am I going to take this verse as a guide to the new year?  A sigh of resignation may be appropriate at times, but I think it would be better for me to take this proverb as a reminder of God’s nearness and sovereignty and as an acknowledgement of my limitations.

If I acknowledge my limitations, that will help me not to have to be so perfect all the time.  Frankly, my progress is impeded much more by my desire for perfection, than by my obvious imperfections.  It has been said that “the good is the enemy of the best.”  Yes, I suppose that is true.  However, for me at least, there is another, even more important truth: The perfect that I can’t achieve is the enemy of the good that I can achieve.  If I accept my limitations, that does not take away my drive to be better.  Quite the contrary!  It is accepting my limitations that empowers me to do well.

And, of course, being reminded of God’s nearness and sovereignty helps to counter my tendency to worry and want to control.  There is an old story that goes something like this: “Good morning!  This is God.  I will not need your help today.  So relax and have a nice day!”

Might work!  And what works for one day probably would work for the entire year of 2020 as well.


[1] Christine Roy Yoder, Proverbs, Abingdon Old Testament Commentaries (Nashville: Abingdon, 2009), 184.

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